Look up at the top bar of the page when you log into DA. They have a little yellow paper with a number next to it, telling you that you got a note and how many.
Oh, but you may not have done that... I've had it that way for so long that I forgot that you have set it up that way. sorry.
But it's up at the top. That down button that says show all messages, had a "Splinter" option. That shows you in groups, at the top of the page, what you got, and how many you have of them.
It's really neat.
(incase you miss the note
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